The Dream Catcher Podcast

When the Old Life No Longer Fits (But the New One Isn’t Clear Yet)

Have you ever felt like your life still “looks right” on the outside… but no longer feels right on the inside?

There are seasons when the roles, routines, relationships, or identities that once fit us perfectly begin to feel tight, restrictive, or strangely foreign. You can’t quite go back to who you were — but you’re not yet clear on who you’re becoming. And that in-between space? It can feel disorienting, lonely, and even frightening.

In this episode, I explore the quiet grief of outgrowing a chapter before the next one has revealed itself. We talk about why the brain clings to familiarity, why uncertainty feels so destabilizing, and how to move forward without a detailed map. I also share a powerful metaphor from Sleeping Beauty that beautifully captures what it means to cut through the thorns of transition with courage rather than certainty.

If you’re navigating a career shift, the end of a relationship, a relocation, or simply an internal awakening that’s reshaping your identity, this conversation will remind you that you’re not lost — you’re in transition.

The hallway between rooms isn’t a mistake. It’s a bridge.

Tune in for reassurance, perspective, and the steady reminder that uncertainty doesn’t mean you’re off track — it often means you’re evolving.

Why You Always Feel Like You’re Not Doing Enough (and How to Heal It)

Have you ever finished a full day of work and still felt like it wasn’t enough?

In this episode, we explore the subtle, persistent pressure to always be doing more — even when you’re already exhausted. From hustle culture and internalized expectations to the deeper link between productivity and self-worth, we unpack why so many capable, driven people feel perpetually behind.

Through personal reflection and psychological insight, this conversation invites you to question the belief that your value must be earned through constant effort. What if “enough” isn’t a finish line in the future, but a relationship you can begin inhabiting now?

If you’ve ever struggled with the feeling of not doing enough, this episode offers a gentler, more grounded way forward.

[Interview] Confident by Choice: The Inner Shifts That Build Unshakable Self-Belief (feat. Juan Bendaña)

Have you ever wondered why some people move through life with ease—speaking up, taking chances, and pursuing opportunities—while others hesitate, overthink, or wait for the “right moment” to finally feel ready?

In this episode, we explore a powerful reframe: what if confidence isn’t something you’re born with, but something you build—choice by choice?

I’m joined by Juan Bendaña, an internationally renowned speaker and author of Confident by Choice. Juan has helped hundreds of thousands of people develop confidence that isn’t loud, performative, or ego-driven, but grounded, practical, and real.

Together, we unpack the myths that keep people stuck, the micro-decisions that build real self-trust, and how to transform fear from something that stops you into something that moves you forward.

If you’ve been waiting to feel “ready,” this conversation might gently show you another way.

How to Choose the Right Relationships for Who You’re Becoming

As we grow and evolve, the relationships we keep begin to matter in deeper ways. Some connections support our comfort and lifestyle — while others quietly shape our courage, clarity, and sense of purpose.

In this episode, we explore how to choose the right relationships, not from a place of judgment or rigidity, but from honesty and self-respect. We look at how friendships and partnerships influence who we are becoming, why outgrowing certain connections is a natural part of growth, and how to recognize relationships that genuinely support your calling.

This is a reflective, grounded conversation for anyone navigating change, reassessing their inner circle, or seeking relationships that feel aligned with their values and deeper direction.

Listen with curiosity — not to make decisions, but to notice what feels true for you.

[Interview] Listening to Your Emotions: The Healing Intelligence Within (feat. Karla McLaren)

Original airdate: October 16, 2023

We’re often taught that emotions are problems to be managed or overcome. But nothing could be further from the truth. Emotions don’t create problems—they carry the very intelligence we need to meet them.

In this episode, my guest Karla McLaren invites us to rethink our relationship with our inner world. She shares how accessing the wisdom within our emotions can lead to a life that feels more meaningful, healing, and deeply awake.

Karla McLaren, M.Ed., is an award-winning author, social science researcher, and empathy innovator. She is the CEO of Emotion Dynamics Inc., the developer of Dynamic Emotional Integration®, and the creator of the Empathy Academy. She is also the author of several influential books, including Embracing Anxiety and The Art of Empathy.

This conversation goes far beyond naming or managing feelings. Karla teaches us how to honor our emotions, listen to the questions they are asking, and integrate their wisdom into everyday life—so that emotions become allies rather than obstacles on the path to inner freedom.

 

5 Pieces of Self-Help Advice That Doesn't Work Anymore (And What to Do Instead)

Much of the self-help advice we’re exposed to today sounds confident and inspiring — yet somehow fails to land where it matters most: real life. In this episode, we explore why certain popular messages around positivity, hustle, passion, boundaries, and self-love no longer serve us in the modern world.

Rather than offering more fixes or formulas, this reflection invites a quieter, more discerning approach to growth — one that honors nervous systems, lived experience, and emotional truth. If you’ve ever felt jaded by self-help, or sensed that you’ve outgrown familiar advice, this episode offers a grounded space to reconsider what genuine growth looks like now.

Listen slowly. Take what resonates. Let the rest fall away.

[Interview] Illuminating the Shadow: Turning Self-Sabotage into Inner Power (feat. Xavier Dagba)

Have you ever noticed yourself repeating the same patterns—even when you know better? In this episode, I’m joined by Xavier Dagba for a deeply honest conversation about the shadow side of our inner lives.

We explore the parts of ourselves we’ve learned to hide: old emotional wounds, unmet needs, and traits we’ve labeled as “unacceptable.”

Xavier also introduces the idea of the golden shadow—the disowned strengths, gifts, and radiance we often keep just as hidden as our pain.

Xavier is a transformational coach, speaker, and author known for his grounded, trauma-informed approach to shadow integration and self-liberation. Drawing from depth psychology, embodied healing, and spiritual wisdom, he helps people dissolve self-sabotage and live with greater wholeness and integrity. He is also the creator of The Embodied Light Project and host of the Enheartened.

In our conversation, we talk about resistance, self-sabotage, and why meaningful change can feel so challenging—even when it’s deeply desired.

This episode offers practical insights into recognizing your shadow, working with it compassionately, and integrating all parts of yourself so you can live in a more grounded, authentic way.

The Meaning of Synchronicities: Are They Signs or Just Coincidence?

Synchronicities have a way of showing up right when we need them—through a book, a conversation, or a repeating sign that feels impossible to ignore.

In this episode, we explore the meaning of synchronicities and how to interpret them with clarity rather than obsession. You’ll learn how to tell the difference between genuine inner guidance and simple pattern-recognition, why synchronicities often appear during transitions, and how to respond in a way that strengthens self-trust instead of outsourcing your power.

The Liminal Space: When Your Old Life No Longer Fits (and the New One Hasn’t Arrived Yet)

Have you ever felt like you’re floating between two versions of your life — no longer who you were, but not quite who you’re becoming either?

That in-between season has a name: the liminal space.

And while it can feel disorienting, lonely, and unsettling… it’s also where some of your deepest transformation begins.

In this solo reflection, I’m sharing what I’ve been learning in real time as I move through a liminal season of my own — and how to stay grounded when life feels uncertain, unstructured, or emotionally unfamiliar.

If you’re in a chapter where nothing feels fully stable yet… I hope this episode helps you feel less alone, and more held.

When Life Looks Fine But Feels Empty: What History Teaches Us About Meaning

Civilizations don’t usually collapse overnight — they erode quietly, through comfort, distraction, and forgotten values. In this reflective episode, we explore what history reveals about meaning, drift, and inner decline through stories like the Roman Empire and the Maya civilization.

But this isn’t just about the past. It’s about the subtle ways we lose our own sense of purpose while life looks “fine” on the surface. You’ll also walk away with five simple practices to rebuild meaning, return to what matters, and stay steady in uncertain times.